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Stephany ALEXANDER in her article
Top 10 Reasons Why Men Cheat
Why do so many men cheat in relationships? Men know that cheating is wrong, yet many still do it. Some men blame their reasons for cheating on their genes and their necessity to reproduce. However, aren't we suppose to be further evolved than a chimpanzee? Shouldn't we be able to control our bodies through our minds and make conscious decisions?
Apparently not always. Here are the top 10 reasons why men cheat in no particular order:
1. Because they had the option. The old saying "men are only as faithful as their options" can sometimes ring true.
Men don't get offered sex as often as women so when the opportunity does arise, it can be very difficult for them to turn it down.
2. It boosts their ego. Sometimes men don't feel like they are attractive to the opposite sex anymore and when a woman shows
some interest, not only does a man react, he may allow her to stroke his ego and more.
There's nothing like the thrill of the chase for men on the hunt. When they are finally rewarded for their efforts, their egos swell even larger.
3. You grow apart. Maybe the two of you didn't have as much in common as you thought.
He's met a woman who has more in common with him who loves football or plays golf. He may check out if he
is compatible with her under the sheets also.
4. You argue a lot. Men will sometimes cheat to get away from an overly critical
or argumentative partner. Who wants to be around someone who is constantly on them about something?
5. He's fallen out of love. Sometimes men become so comfortable in a relationship, they don't know
how to get out. They may be staying in the relationship because of children or financial reasons.
However, they feel like they are missing out on love and may seek it out elsewhere.
In their mind, this is as close to win-win as they can get.
6. Your sex life sucks. If a man has a disinterested partner or isn't getting enough sex to fulfill him,
there is a good chance he will stray. Just because you have a husband or boyfriend, does not mean you
can stop trying. It takes a little bit of effort to keep your sex life from getting boring and non-existent.
Some men cheat because they want to try new sexual things that their current partner will not try.
7. To get revenge. A man will sometimes cheat if he finds out his partner was cheating on him.
How else is he supposed to heal those hurt feelings of his but through some good old fashioned sex?
8. It's new, different and exciting. Some men get tired of having "steak" for dinner every night and
want to try a "hamburger." That's why some men don't necessarily cheat with women who are more attractive than their partner.
9. To see if they can get away with it. If a man has the attitude of "what she doesn't know, won't hurt her,"
he may cheat to see if he is sneaky and smart enough to get away with it. However, with all the advancement
in surveillance spyware, catching a cheater has now become easier than ever.
10. Because you have allowed it in the past. If you have forgiven a cheating man a couple of times, they
are more than likely going to cheat again because they already know if they plead enough, you will forgive them.
Reasons why men cheat can be more complex than the above list or even be a combination of a few different reasons.
Nevertheless, no reason is good enough to lie and be dishonest.
(© - By courtesy of Stephany Alexander - http://www.womansavers.com)
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