The crisis factors or
« 28 key-behaviors leading to break-up »
(Arrange them according to your own priorities)
Are you going through some couple problems and looking for information and solutions?
You're at the right place.
You could find the possible reason of your present difficulties among the following mistakes: if repeated, they're plunging many couples into break-up...
You'll discover various solutions to quickly overcome them with the help of the ebook-program introduced in these pages:
'100 Sure Ways To Help Your Couple'.
Making one of these following 'faux pas' really isn't a good idea at all.
The possible EXCESSES:
addictions (alcohol, tobacco, drugs, gamble, sexual perversions,...);
aggressiveness: physical and/or verbal violence;
children being witnesses of your conflicts;
constraint: imposing your points of view, your own will, your tastes, desires, needs..., without caring about your mate's ones;
one-sided "demand": if it's the same partner who has always to ask for intimacy... danger!
disparaging your partner in front of your children or other people;
disregarding your partner's expectations, wishes and intimate desires: when legitimate expectations are ignored – sign of a lack of care and/or selfishness –, disappointments and frustrations are piling;
indifference: showing no interest for your partner's life and actions; often forgetting important facts or dates;
intolerance, refusing mutual concessions; contesting your partner's right to just be different ;
extreme jealousy, possessiveness;
neglecting oneself (being always untidy);
continuous reproaches, making your partner feel guilty;
selfishness and egocentrism;
high sensitivity, disproportionate emotional reactions;
continuous or repeated unavailability (profession, external obligations...), i.e. forgetting your genuine priorities;
persistent will to submit your partner, to restraint their autonomy and right to be, to act or to think differently.
The possible LACKS:
lack of communication and dialogues;
lack of empathy: putting yourself in your partner's place allows you to discover the virtues (and benefits) of indulgence;
lack of exchanges and frustration due to a « one-way » feeling;
lack of generosity in the attitudes and/or on the financial aspect, – particularly when it remains resources for selfish needs;
lack of tolerance and comprehension;
lack of fidelity – under all its forms...;
lack of respect and consideration;
lack of sharing: dialogues, fields of interest, activities, "essential values", projects, , objectives, ideal, experiences, dreams, tastes, home chores and responsibilities, decisions, moments of amazement – or revolt, moments of entertainment, bursts of laughter,... etc, etc.;
lack of tenderness and attention(s);
lack of valuing of the other: like everyone, your partner is sensitive to be 'recognized' in their person, opinions, actions, words, etc.;
Other indirect factors as lack of money or security, tensions with step-children, lack of coherence, badly-matched partners or... just falling in love with somebody else, – are also developed in the ebook.
Genuine, efficient solutions to your concerns and your couple problems do exist! As well as easy to implement techniques and recommendations in order to adopt attitudes in complete opposition of those on the list above.
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